Lessons from the chapters of Life!

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Hey everyone, let me take a minute to guess how thoughts change to emotions and they flow like a flawless river. EMOTIONS. They are infinite and uncontrollable for many. For some, it controls their life for some, they control it. That is the difference. I personally believe in the discipline of experience and Nature. They can teach you a lot more than the books and class rooms. Again know the worth of your self! How can I ? That's only through experience. In this blog let me share you about the feeling of emotions generated during loneliness.

Man is an emotional animal. He can only be defeated by emotions I repeat Defeated. Emotions are strong lines of connection that connect the Homo sapien species. When a human controls it, it becomes beautiful, but when they control a man it can become horrible. Their is a phase in every person's life where he feels hollow inside. He wishes for people to be very happy with him and that happens only in his dream no Procastinations. 

I have faced a lot of problems because of loneliness, they dagger you inside, they blame you and you are forced to loathe yourself, which is the actual toxin. For a spiritual being it is easy to cope up, I repeat not a religious being but a spiritual being. But for people like you and me, we will suffer and suffer, shed tears and tears but fail recklessly. That is because of the consequences of loneliness. Loneliness is the ultimate truth of life because we are born alone and will die alone. At times life teaches you that it is the limit to love, to worry, to tempt, to regret, to mess up, to show anger, arrogance and now its the time to accept. And we generously fail to accept, that's where loneliness becomes a burden, a melancholy and atlast the depression. Nobody is going to help you from this emotion that you have rolled and messed up with. The only one who can sort your life is You, you and Only You. 

What will you do now to know your own worth? Psychology gives you a plenty of solutions but what you can do is, love yourself in all the odd times. You have to know this, that you are guided by your own intuitions, give an ear to it. Don't take them for granted. And I say this from my experience (regarding unstable friends and lonely desks I have been in colleges still, but now I know to accept) better don't tell about this pain to your parents, that might seem silly to them and they unknowingly and unintentionally hurt you back. (All are not same and I am not giving a bad comment on parents, they understand us but it is the busy life and job stress, sometimes they tend to take this period as silly). This, you have to deal personally or with the person you feel comfortable of your age. 

Loneliness affects you in multiple ways. It creates an uneasiness towards everything, importantly the time which you could use for your passion is successfully wasted. It can gift you with inferiority complex and self doubts. So now think ones, FOR WHOM ARE YOU WASTING YOUR MOST ENERGETIC PHASE OF LIFE? Life is not only about what you make but also about what you break.

Now, let's take some vows to love ourselves more.
Love the way you do stupid things. 
Make your imperfections glow and grow such that your imperfections impress yourself in a perfect way. 
Give your passion every thing and they will give you immense happiness.
Accept yourself, because no one will accept you when you hesitate to accept yourself. 
Thank the people who hate you because they are showing you that you are way worthier. 
If you don't find happy with the life you have you will have to regret when you are silver haired, old and waiting for the white cloth to cover your face.
Let people bark at you, pooh-pooh you, it's okay because that's their idea of self satisfaction. Let us do our part of successfully ignoring it. 
Let them belittle you but don't give them the right to hurt you. 
Give the authority of your life only to the almighty and you yourselves. 
It is a suggestion, if you give priority to your conscience and your soul take  a "Me time" it will heal your heart and soul. 
Give a try to meditation, converse with your soul, meditate and watch the way how your body works 24×7 for your construction, be grateful for that. It will give you immense peace. 

Every one deserves a peaceful life, nobody will handover you the peace, it is achieved, it is felt and it is the most precious thing in the world.

Signing off for today😇
#GratitudeismyAttitude 
My life speaks I write😌

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